TURN IT OFF! When out on a date, especially when dining, turn your phone off. She/He/They/Them should have your attention, the rest CAN WAIT.
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QueerBOIS, having proper table ettiquette can go a long way and can be a huge confidence booster. Have you ever been to a dinner party or a fancy restaurant and found yourself unsure which was your water glass or which was the right bread plate?
I’ll pass on a few tricks I use to keep my dining (formal) experience always on point. First and foremost, always place your dropcloth/napkin/dinner clothe in your lap immediately after sitting down. Next keep this one in mind, the ”R” in DRINK reminds us to reach RIGHT. Which means that your BREAD plate is at your LEFT. Lastly, never let the utencils frighten you. Start with the outer utencil and work your way in, as the courses are passed it will become evident which you’ll need. Remember work inward and end at the top with dessert fork and/or spoon!!!
Bon Appetit!!
-McKenzie
(via 0rionstar)
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Our homes are our sanctuaries. As courtesy, we must always be mindful to look for cues when visiting others about how they expect and desire visitors to behave in their space.
Take for instance, shoes in the house. It is customary in many homes to NOT wear shoes in the house. Our shoes take us everywhere so we must be aware that if you’re visiting someone ALWAYS be prepared to remove your shoes. Try to incorporate a pair of funky patterned/color socks. This will lend to a stylish edge as well as pay respect to those you are visiting. Many hosts/hostesses will offer a location in their home’s for shoes as well as other belongings. This prevents us from keeping up with bags and other things as well as being comfortable in someone’s home.
Likewise, it is okay to implement a NO Shoes policy in your home. Be consistent, be courteous and be clear.
Cheers! to Etiquette, Style and Function~
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QueerBOIS, making reservations is customary and quite simply an act of business. Sometimes it is unavoidable; those late evening working sessions, impromptu dinner with someone sweet or of course some times we forget. Making reservations can also add to your style. By doing so, not only do you ensure availability but the opportunity to build new and potential reciprocal relationships with the management and staff.
These types of informal “relational’ acquaintances really do make a difference over time. Surprise dinner parties, mother’s birthday celebration, high school graduation, all come together over an evening out at your favorite place, the spot where they know you well and take care of you like family!
Queer B.O.I.S.~ Respect~Dining~Love~Family~Reservations~Etiquette
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Queer bois, the shoe horn is not just that piece of plastic or metal that you only use when trying on shoes in shops. The shoe horn has many responsibilities and advantages. Who wants to lean down and wrinkle their pants trying to get a new pair of bluchers? Noone. So take that shoe horn out, slide it into the shoe and keep it open while utilizing the curved to slide the heel and foot into the shoe without distress. There are all kinds of brands, colors and lengths to choose from, the next time you’re out shopping for your next pair of footwear ask about shoe horns, if they have them pick one up. They do help to improve the livelihood and shelf life of your shoes a considerable amount. GET SOME!
::Style::
QueerBOIS, having proper table ettiquette can go a long way and can be a huge confidence booster. Have you ever been to a dinner party or a fancy restaurant and found yourself unsure which was your water glass or which was the right bread plate?
I’ll pass on a few tricks I use to keep my dining experience always on point. First and foremost, always place your dropcloth/napkin/dinner clothe in your lap immediately after sitting down. Next keep this one in mind, the ”R” in DRINK reminds us to reach RIGHT. Which means that your BREAD plate is at your LEFT. Lastly, never let the utencils frighten you. Start with the outer utencil and work your way in, as the courses are passed it will become evident which you’ll need. Remember work inward and end at the top with dessert fork and/or spoon!!!
Bon Appetit!!
QueerBOIS don’t WHINE OR COMPLAIN, EVER.
QueerBOIS SELDOM PROCRASTINATE.
QueerBOIS OPEN DOORS for whoever, wherever, and whenever possible.
The Power in "Thank You" Cards
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QueerBOIS, if you ever want to add to your personal etiquette and style, sending a thank you note or card could just be what you’re looking for. Not every boi likes to write, we get this but sometimes we have to make that extra effort to show our appreciation and keep a strong reputation. So don’t forget to send a note or card when you can because it could be just the edge you need to land that job or even that womn you had your eyes on. ;-)
Here is what the SME experts had to say about sending Thank you cards and notes.
JENERO DERIO :: Etiquette Expert
Handwritten notes and letters unfortunately have been replaced by e-mailing & text messaging. Those mediums have contributed to the desensitizing of true heart felt sentiments. When someone has been considerate enough to do a favor, purchase a gift, support your endeavors, attend your parties, etc; a handwritten ”thank-you” note is appropriate and always in good taste. There’s still power in paper. Paper power has a way of reaching in and touching the delicate uplifting emotions. Paper power requires more effort, thought and is a timeless charm that conveys a high level of appreciation for a selfless act.
If your handwriting is simular to those in the medical profession, opt to print legibly or type. Buenisimo!
TURN IT OFF! When out on a date, especially when dining, turn your phone off. She/He/They should have your attention, the rest can wait.
Drop-Cloths and Dining out
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QueerBOIS love to dine out and when we do, we want to make the best impression possible. Here are some tips from The SME on how to properly use drop-clothes when dining out. Enjoy!
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JENERO DERIO :: Etiquette Expert
In your professional, romantic and social realm, it is inevitable that once you are seated at any table, you are confronted with a table setting. A glass, silverware, a plate and one napkin. (A lot of people become intimidated by this situation not knowing how to navigate around the table with style.) Your drop-cloth typically becomes the first, middle and last thing you should touch during the dining process. Here are four steps to happier dining.
Step one: Always when seated at the table, drop your cloth in your lap (unless the server does it for you).
Step two: Anytime you step away from the table, place your drop-cloth in your seat. This translates to your server that you are still dining.
Step three: While dining, always place your drop-cloth back on your lap after every usage.
Step four: Once you have finished dining, place your drop-cloth on the table. This let’s your server know that you have finished dining and the dishes can be removed.
Under no circumstance can your drop-cloth double as tissue to blow your nose. If it becomes soiled, request another. Buenisimo!
